Good and Bad Discussion

My brother...

Discussion is very important. By discussion, we can get more knowledge. We can also advise other person who discuss with us.

But, sometimes, discussion change to be debate. And sometimes. when we debate, we don't look for truth, but we look for winning.

If we discuss or debate only want to look fir winning, our discussion/debate will be broken. It will not give us advantage, but will give us broken in relation. Good relation is more important than winning in discussion/debate.

So, good discussion is discussion that's done only for looking truth and advise other people. We shouldn't break our relation. We should stop our discussion if it change to be debate that only give broken to us.

May we can keep our intention when discuss, only for looking reward from Allah, looking truth, and advise people. :)



Surabaya, July 19 2013