Spare Time Before Narrow Time

 y brothers, just now I got good advice from one of speaker in masjid. He told about hadits Rasulullah Saw that explain about  5 things that we should maximilize and take care. What are those? Those are live before dead, young before old, sick before health, spare  time before narrow time, and rich before poor.  After I look in my life (may be in your life too), I remember  about one of those things, that is “spare time before narrow  time”.

My brothers, let’s look look in our  life. May be we often don’t maximilize our spare time until narrow time come.  We don’t care about spare time. We do other doing for getting fun. And then when narrow time come, we only can regret and regret.

So this way, one of key for getting success and what we want to reach is maximilize our spare time. We don’t  use it for getting fun. We can use it for fun, but better if we only  use  little time.

 Yeah, like that my brother. I hope this can give advantage for me and for all of us. Amiin.

Panceng, Gresik, December 8, 2013

The Important of Target

  My brother, all of people want to get success. But in reality, many people don’t get success. The question is, why don’t they get success?

To answer this question is not easy. But, I have specia opinion to answer this question. My answer is, because they don’t make target. They want to get what they want, but they don’t have plan when they will reach it. The effect is, they make their time pass away without advantage and without effort to reach their dream.

So my brother, target is very important. It can make our effort to reach dream become clear. By  target, we will get spirit, we will high motivation. Because, whe know when we will get our goal.

My brother, don’t forget, if we want to make special target we should be commitment and also consistant to reach it. For example, if we want to reach our dream next year, we must effort and effort to make our dream will be gotten in the next year.

May we can do this. :)

Panceng, Gresik, November 10, 2013

Patience

 My brother, talking about patience, may be some of us feel boring. Because, they often listen about patience.

But my brother, we should know, in facing this life we need patience in every time and every place. Yeah, we need patience whenever and wherever.

Who can be patient in facing ths life, he will gt happiness and calm. But who can’t be, he only will get sadness.

How about us? Can we be patient?

Panceng, Gresik, November 7, 2013

Good Speaking

My brothers, our God gave us 2 ears and 1 mouth. What is the purpose? The purpose is in order we can listen more than speak.

So this way, we should be careful in speaking. Many bad "accident" happen because of speaking. For example, insult other people or often blame them.

My brothers, Rasulullah Saw said that if we can't speak/say by good saying, better for us if we are silent. Yeah, silent is better. Or we can say, silent is gold. But if we can spek by good spaking it wil be better than silent.

So, can we speak by good speaking?





Bandung, Indonsia November 26, 2013

About Satisfied

 My brother, after thinking and looking many condition, I make a new conclusion in my life. I think it is true. I think, what I think is not true.

It is about satisfied. Satisfied in facing life. I think, there are two kinds of satisfied. First is good satisfied and the second is bad satisfied.

God satisfied is satisfied that make us enjoy, calm, and happy after we get something that we want.  After that, someone who own this will get spirit and then effort and do better than before. And then, he get new “achievement” again that make him satisfied again.

In contrary, bad satisfied is after enjoy, calm, and happy he goes down. He does not have good spirit. He does not do better. He effort and do worse than before.

The question is, how to get good satisfied? My opinion is, we should make our feeling satisfy because of Allah. Because He will give reward to us and also His heaven. Yeah, I think this is the way to get good satisfied.

May we get good satisfied. Ameen.

Bandung, November 16, 2013

Way to Keep Desire

My brother, I get good learning/wisdom when I read novel that's written by Indonesian writer, Habiriburrahman EL-Shirazy in his novel "Bumi Cinta".


What is the wisdom/hikmah? In this novel there is a way to keep us for our bad desire. I mean, bad sexual desire. Because we know that everybody can fall down if they can't keep it. Kang Abik (call name of Habiburrahman) give wisdom that the way to keep desire is by remember Allah so much. He took it from alQuran. But fortunately, I forget the surah. 


So, whoever want to keep his sexual desire from badness he should remember Allah (dzikrullah) so much. Like subhanallah, alhamdulillah, allhu akbar, astaghfirullah, etc. Or we can pray to Him eiher using araic language or oher language. we can also recite al-Quran; because reciting of al-Quran is dzikrullah too.


And then brother, before I stop my writing, I want to deliver what I get last night in Islamic speech. The speaker said that Rasulullah ever explained in hadits that who is busy in reciting al-Quran remmber Allah (dzikrullah) Allah will give him mercy/help etc when he need it eventhough he doesn't ask it to Allah. Subhanallah.

So my brother, the conclusion is, way for keep our desire is make ourself busy in dzikrullah and reciting. May we can :)


Panceng, Gresik, November 5, 2013

Listen More

My brother,  Allah give us 2 ears and 1 mouth. The learning (hikmah) from it is we should listen more than speak. But in our daily activity, many people like to speak but “lazy” to listen other. They only want  their speaking be listened but they don’t want to listen others. Many people are like this.  And may be,  we are one of them.

I remember  what Rasulullah Saw do when one of Quraisy people say  by many words. He say and say. Rasulullah Asw listen him and never cut his speaking. After the saying finish, Rasulullah saw ask him, “Have you done in speaking?” He answer,  “ yes I have done”.  And then Rasulullah Saw say anything that make him silent and fail to make Rasulullah Saw stop his dakwah.

What is the learning that we get ? Yeah, we should listen more than speak. InsyaAllah by listen more, we will get many knowledhe and advantage. Yeah, insyaAllah. :)

Panceng, Gresik, October 13, 2013

Important or Very Important?

My brother, for  success and great man, time is like gold or money. Very important. They will spend their  time very well. No time without hard and important activity. But for failure and “small” man, time is not so important. Important, but it’s not so important. They will use their  time for their fun. They don’t care whether  they spend their time for goodness or badness. They don’t care it.

Now, how about us? Is  time very important? Or, only important?  Please answer by action. Don’t only answer by statement or words. J

Panceng, Gresik, 12 October, 2013